Let me tell you what sex work money means, if no one has ever told you.
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As RuPaul correctly points out, we’re all born naked—the rest is drag. I always looked at getting dressed for work as a costume. I don’t know if you can be a female drag queen, but that was always my approach: lace and heels and make-up weren’t my birthright, but something I secretly stole from the femmes who truly “owned” them.
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That depends on whom you ask.
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Dear Lola: I see that you married a client, and I was wondering if you have any advice for me on how to meet and marry an escort?
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It took me 2 1/2 years, but I'm finally done with the writing and editing of Thriving in Sex Work!
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Sometimes you think that fellow cammer is going to be your BFF, but things don't work out like you hoped.
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I'm not a CPA, and I don't play one on t.v. But I've been fortunate to get excellent tax and investment advice over the years from sex work-friendly accountants; here's some of what I learned.
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Podcast of sex worker stories-- I tell the story of my first time!
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Three podcasts in three weeks, and a new article dropping for YNOTcam.com -- I've been busy!
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You can check me out on This Damn World, talking about sex work, self-care, and the new Tr*mp Regime. Her Name was Lola
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How do you motivate yourself on those days when the last thing you want to do is cam? A bad attitude is bad for business. Here’s some advice on what to do when you just aren’t feeling it.
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Jerks happen. We can’t just ignore them and hope they go away. We have to be proactive. Here's a three-step plan to keep the bastards from getting you down.
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