It’s okay to let go of people who aren’t really your friends. This was a surprisingly difficult lesson. Holding onto people too long caused me a lot of pain and drama.
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When you’re forty, nobody is going to give two shits that you did sex work in your teens or twenties. Or your thirties. Or at all, ever. By the time you’re middle-aged, everyone has their story — they’ve struggled with addiction, they’ve gone bankrupt, they’ve had an abortion or been to jail or have a child who doesn’t speak to them...
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You are under no obligation to tell anyone you are camming. Ever. Not your mother, your old roommate, your best friend. You are an adult. Nobody owns you. You can be sexual and make money any way you see fit – no one needs to know about it.
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In the 80’s and 90’s Prince was the soundtrack to my life as a sexual adventurer. His funky grooves were an itch coursing through my veins that made me want to be a stripper, a professional sadist, a porn star. To dress like a slut, to work my body like a whore.
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