For the month of December, I’m offering paperback copies of Thriving in Sex Work: Heartfelt Advice for Staying Sane in the Sex Industry to any US or Canadian nonprofit at my cost: US $10, which includes shipping.
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You can check me out on This Damn World, talking about sex work, self-care, and the new Tr*mp Regime. Her Name was Lola
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One of slut-shaming’s most potent weapons is the rule: Sluts Don’t Get To Regret. Whether they wanted it, whether they chose it, whether they said yes to one thing, but that led to something else they didn’t want, sluts don’t get to wish things had gone otherwise. Sluts get what they deserve.
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At home tonight watching the Black Lives Matter protests, heartsick over the pointless, tragic loss of more life. All day I’ve been carrying the sight of Diamond Reynolds’s composure watching her man bleed out beside her. Thinking of the times I’ve lost my shit with cops, and thinking how very likely it is if I had pulled that crap while black I’d be dead.
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